Attitude

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Ray

This is a great group for getting help to solve a problem. Most responses
are courteous and helpful - but - it's discouraging when a question is asked
for assistance and the response is from a smart ass who answers with the
attitude that the person asking is an idiot who should know better. I doubt
that the smart ass never had to ask for help before he became such an
expert. I recently posted a question and the answer I got was a person who
made me feel stupid for asking. I'm 91 years old and although I have had at
least seven computers beginning before the internet went public, I have
always used them for business and have never delved into the technicalities.
I don't think that makes me inferior or stupid. Like most others in this
group, I only want to learn.
 
B

Big Steel

This is a great group for getting help to solve a problem. Most
responses are courteous and helpful - but - it's discouraging when a
question is asked for assistance and the response is from a smart ass
who answers with the attitude that the person asking is an idiot who
should know better. I doubt that the smart ass never had to ask for help
before he became such an expert. I recently posted a question and the
answer I got was a person who made me feel stupid for asking. I'm 91
years old and although I have had at least seven computers beginning
before the internet went public, I have always used them for business
and have never delved into the technicalities. I don't think that makes
me inferior or stupid. Like most others in this group, I only want to
learn.
I wouldn't worry about it, if I were you. You know how smart-ass young
people are. I am sure you have seen your kids, grand kids and great
grand kids all be little smart-asses over the years. You didn't make it
to 91 worrying about such crap. :)
 
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Gadfly

Don't worry about it, Ray. These jerks are all probably brought up, if you
can call it that, by single mothers who either spend no time with them or
too much time with them - if you know what I mean.

If you have any computer problems or need computer information ask me via
this website.-

http://www.pcbuyerbeware.co.uk/

The contact email address is at the bottom of the home page or ask it via
the site's facebook page. -

http://www.facebook.com/pcbuyerbeware.co.uk

Regards,

Eric
 
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philo 

This is a great group for getting help to solve a problem. Most
responses are courteous and helpful - but - it's discouraging when a
question is asked for assistance and the response is from a smart ass
who answers with the attitude that the person asking is an idiot who
should know better. I doubt that the smart ass never had to ask for
help before he became such an expert. I recently posted a question and
the answer I got was a person who made me feel stupid for asking. I'm
91 years old and although I have had at least seven computers beginning
before the internet went public, I have always used them for business
and have never delved into the technicalities. I don't think that makes
me inferior or stupid. Like most others in this group, I only want to
learn.


This is Usenet and there are a lot of jokers here who say things they'd
never have the guts to say to someone's face. You have to learn to
ignore that.

OTOH: I have been know to joke around a lot and that does not always
come off so well as a joke, and I've been known to piss off people every
once in a while.

My pet peeve is people who think older folks are incapable of learning.
My uncle got his first computer at the age of 89, for a few weeks ,
asked me an occasional question, then was on his own.

Also: My own mother had a computer for years before I ever had one myself!
 
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philo 

If you need advice again...
just wait for Ken Blake to get back to you.

I learned a lot from him when I first started out!

....and that is *not* one of my jokes!
 
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VanguardLH

Ray said:
This is a great group for getting help to solve a problem. Most responses
are courteous and helpful - but - it's discouraging when a question is asked
for assistance and the response is from a smart ass who answers with the
attitude that the person asking is an idiot who should know better. I doubt
that the smart ass never had to ask for help before he became such an
expert. I recently posted a question and the answer I got was a person who
made me feel stupid for asking. I'm 91 years old and although I have had at
least seven computers beginning before the internet went public, I have
always used them for business and have never delved into the technicalities.
I don't think that makes me inferior or stupid. Like most others in this
group, I only want to learn.
Your sum total of experience is for naught considering your inexperience
in posting in Usenet. For example, you kept responding with your reply
content AFTER the signature delimiter line ("-- ") and some newsreaders
or web interfaces strip signatures since they are considered fluff (they
are unimportant and the body before the signature is where you add your
content). So despite your experience with using computers for maybe 20
years and with your age being irrelevant, your replies may have gotten
stripped along with the signature. In my newsreader, I can strip
signatures or just dim them. Lots of users don't understand that
EVERYTHING past the sigdash line is the *signature* so I've had to just
dim signatures since many posters put their reply content in the wrong
place. It takes awhile to get used to the netiquette standards in
Usenet and that requires repeated visits and postings. By the way,
"----" is NOT a valid signature delimiter line.

Also, WLM is a lousy Usenet client as it does not properly quote and
indent the quoted content in your replies which makes it unclear which
content is from which poster. Microsoft abandoned Usenet and then in
WLM v15+ removed proper quoting (adding the ">" prefix to each quoted
line) and indentation when replying. Posters now have to do that
manually to show who said what, or switch to a good NNTP client.

You also started your thread with no reference to WHICH program you were
using to read .pdf files and even guessed at it in one of your replies
despite the program clearly identifies itself. Too often newbies in
Usenet forget that respondents aren't looking over their shoulder to see
at what they are pointing. In your case, there are SEVERAL programs
capable of viewing PDF files so no one would know until you told them
which one you were asking about. It wastes time by respondents having
to prod out more details from the OP (original poster) by issuing more
posts to get the details. You can lose potential respondents if you
omit the details since many will see there is insufficient information
to troubleshoot and there are plenty of other posters asking for help so
they move on. I didn't contribute to your PDF thread because I could
see at a glance the PDF program was not identified so I moved on as I
visit somewhere around 30 newsgroups. I didn't have enough to prod out
more details unless I didn't spend much time elsewhere and decided to
come back to yours.

Because you added your reply content after the sigdash line and because
you don't realize that Usenet is an *un*moderated venue for
communications, your age and your length of experience with using
computers are irrelevant regarding Usenet where you are inexperienced.
Driving a car for many decades does not qualify its driver as a master
mechanic. There is no moderation here. There are some moderated
newsgroups but that incurs a delay to have your submission await
qualification by a moderator. Moderated newsgroups are usually denoted
by .moderated in their name. With unmoderated newsgroups, anyone can
post and that includes children (mental age, not physical age),
spammers, scammers, malcontents, and trolls. Usenet is an anarchy. It
is not a warm, comfy, fuzzy nice place to visit nor somewhere for easily
bruised egos.

Ranting about a bad experience with a poster has absolutely no effect on
detering whomever you were complaining from continue to inhabit the
newsgroup. It's like they have a thicker skinned ego than newcomers,
like yourself. In fact, it may only instill further flaming which is
something for which newbies are unprepared.

I'm not sure who you think made a severe agregious attack against you in
your PDF thread. Seems the worst was duplicate requests from
respondents asking you to identify WHICH program you were asking about.
From looking at that thread and the replies there, if you think that was
such a horrendous experience in Usenet (where you did NOT say that you
have experience) then you're incapable of handling Usenet and should
find some well-moderated web-based forums to visit. If your experience
in the PDF thread is what spurred you to waste time in a separate new
thread to rant about it, your ego is far too easily bruised for you to
be here. Sorry, but if it was some other thread of yours, I'm not
sufficiently motivated by reading your rant to go hunting around for
where someone somewhere else so offended you.
 
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Ed Cryer

Ray said:
This is a great group for getting help to solve a problem. Most
responses are courteous and helpful - but - it's discouraging when a
question is asked for assistance and the response is from a smart ass
who answers with the attitude that the person asking is an idiot who
should know better. I doubt that the smart ass never had to ask for
help before he became such an expert. I recently posted a question and
the answer I got was a person who made me feel stupid for asking. I'm
91 years old and although I have had at least seven computers beginning
before the internet went public, I have always used them for business
and have never delved into the technicalities. I don't think that makes
me inferior or stupid. Like most others in this group, I only want to
learn.
There are far too many kids let loose on the Internet, and you know how
kids get their kicks!
We hear a lot about how the poor little things get groomed by
paedophiles, and then abused. But we hear little about the mischief
wrought by some of them. And yet we see lots of it.

I found out something today that might reveal some of the underlying
problem. I was on the phone talking to Currys about a hi-fi system they
have. The chap said that he could have one delivered to my local store
for me to pick up after a couple of days. I would have to pay in
advance, but I would have a week's grace to say no and get my money
back. When I said that they used to have a reserve & collect policy, he
said they'd stopped that because only 16% was being picked up. That
means that 84% of the reservations were simply not followed up on.

It's a shame, but I can see just why they've had to stop it.

Ed
 
K

Ken Blake

If you need advice again...
just wait for Ken Blake to get back to you.

I learned a lot from him when I first started out!

...and that is *not* one of my jokes!

Thanks very much for the kind words, Philo.
 
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R. H. Breener

Ray said:
This is a great group for getting help to solve a problem. Most responses
are courteous and helpful - but - it's discouraging when a question is
asked for assistance and the response is from a smart ass who answers with
the attitude that the person asking is an idiot who should know better. I
doubt that the smart ass never had to ask for help before he became such
an expert. I recently posted a question and the answer I got was a person
who made me feel stupid for asking. I'm 91 years old and although I have
had at least seven computers beginning before the internet went public, I
have always used them for business and have never delved into the
technicalities. I don't think that makes me inferior or stupid. Like most
others in this group, I only want to learn.
Don't let the assholes and trolls get to you. Ignore them. There are those
here willing to help no matter what the person's questions are or what
they're experience level is. Usenet is un-moderated so it's very attractive
to those with personality disorders and ego issues. Don't give 'em the
satisfaction of reading their crap.
 
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VanguardLH

R. H. Breener said:
...


Don't let the assholes and trolls get to you. Ignore them. There are those
here willing to help no matter what the person's questions are or what
they're experience level is. Usenet is un-moderated so it's very attractive
to those with personality disorders and ego issues. Don't give 'em the
satisfaction of reading their crap.
Well, you won't know it's crap until you read it. So the advice should
be "Don't give 'em the satisfaction of replying to their crap so they
know you read it" which boils down to "Don't feed the trolls".

http://www.elainabuzzell.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/DontFeedTheTrolls2.jpg

The vendor ran out of stock decades ago and I used up mine in an hour:
http://thepoliticalcarnival.net/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/troll-spray.jpg
 
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FDK

"VanguardLH" wrote in message
R. H. Breener said:
...


Don't let the assholes and trolls get to you. Ignore them. There are
those
here willing to help no matter what the person's questions are or
what
they're experience level is. Usenet is un-moderated so it's very
attractive
to those with personality disorders and ego issues. Don't give 'em
the
satisfaction of reading their crap.
Well, you won't know it's crap until you read it. So the advice
should
be "Don't give 'em the satisfaction of replying to their crap so they
know you read it" which boils down to "Don't feed the trolls".

The vendor ran out of stock decades ago and I used up mine in an
hour:
http://thepoliticalcarnival.net/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/troll-spray.jpg
And you're a hypocrite to boot. Your rambling, raving, disjointed
diatribe, was nothing more than a rambling, raving, disjointed troll.
 
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Ray

I'M SORRY! I apologize to the entire group for starting such a rant. I
had no idea it would result in pitting so many people against each other. I
think the result bears out my contention that there are those who are unkind
in their responses. Call me names if you like. My feelings are not hurt.
I am not angry but certainly upset at the end result. You don’t have to
remind me of my inexperience. I don't think I'm a bad person. I realize
everyone here with the exception of myself is an expert.
 
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FDK

"Ray" wrote in message

I'M SORRY! I apologize to the entire group for starting such a rant.
I
had no idea it would result in pitting so many people against each
other. I
think the result bears out my contention that there are those who are
unkind
in their responses. Call me names if you like. My feelings are not
hurt.
I am not angry but certainly upset at the end result. You don’t
have to
remind me of my inexperience. I don't think I'm a bad person. I
realize
everyone here with the exception of myself is an expert.
 
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Scott

What is going on here? I get criticised for an 'obnoxious' post just
because I was a touch disrespectful towards Windows 8, yet people are
carrying on like this !!!

I really don't know what to make of this newsgroup at all.
 
C

Char Jackson

What is going on here? I get criticised for an 'obnoxious' post just
because I was a touch disrespectful towards Windows 8
You still don't get it. Most of the initial responses had nothing to
do with you or Windows 8. We were dismissing the obnoxious shop that
"evaluated" the new OS for a mere 20 minutes.
yet people are carrying on like this !!!

I really don't know what to make of this newsgroup at all.
Like the Doors said, people are strange.
 
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Ray

"FDK" wrote in message


"Ray" wrote in message

I'M SORRY! I apologize to the entire group for starting such a rant.
I
had no idea it would result in pitting so many people against each
other. I
think the result bears out my contention that there are those who are
unkind
in their responses. Call me names if you like. My feelings are not
hurt.
I am not angry but certainly upset at the end result. You don’t
have to
remind me of my inexperience. I don't think I'm a bad person. I
realize
everyone here with the exception of myself is an expert.
----
_______________________________________________________________

Yeah - you're going to go to heaven.
__________________

You aren't
 
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Scott

You still don't get it. Most of the initial responses had nothing to
do with you or Windows 8. We were dismissing the obnoxious shop that
"evaluated" the new OS for a mere 20 minutes.
With respect, I think you are missing the point now.

How many of the responses to this thread have anything to do with
Windows 7, let alone Ray's original posting? Is this the quality of
decorum to be expected in a 'technical' newsgroup?
 
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